The reason I went back to work was ...
My husband has a good job but I cannot stay at home coz of his careless behaviour. We are married for 5 yrs.Till today,I don't know what his income or savings are.If I ask ,he will get angry. I am concerned about my kids future. My husband is used to giving answers like " Why you trust my words? I may give promise & I may break it too." How can I sit at home with peace of mind with two kids. My husband might save money & he might lose it too anytime, he might give it to anyone he prefer. His character is like that. I am used to it. So, I decided to work so that I can save money for my kids
For me, the transition back to work was ...
I hate to go to work. I am crying while writing this. I want to be with my kids all the time. I always wish I had a husband who saved well for my kids so that I can be with my kids all the day. And I prefer to go to work when they go to school. But, I am unlucky.
Lessons Learned
- Parents were there for me always. i have hurt my parents a lot during my college days. Now, I learn that no matter how much you hurt your parents, they will be there for you when you are in need.
When I went back to work, my oldest child was age ...
3 yrs
The hardest thing about going back to work was ...
I cannot stay away from my kids.. I want to be with them.
The most rewarding thing about going back was ...
The high salary. I can give my kids the best I can. For me, i don't have any personal desires. I don't desire for a life with another man. I will live my life with my husband adjusting to the sorrows he give. My life will be happy if I see my kids happy.
If I could go back and do one thing differently ...
I will go back to my school, correct the wrong things i did, listen to my parents so that I will get a better husband.
